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Teddy Bear Tea Party

It was my daughter’s birthday on Saturday and she said she wanted a stuffed animal party.

“You mean a teddy bear party?”  I asked.

“Yes,” she replied.

And that’s how her teddy bear tea party arrived. We couldn’t find a card with anything remotely related to teddy bears or tea parties.  If you’re not interested in Hannah Montana or Dora the Explorer, then good luck. The only birthday party themes are commercial. Because of that, we staged our own picture and then made it into a card. This was the front of the card.

First there was bear bingo with teddy grahams as the bingo pieces.  My daughter played her own version, with her own homemade cards.

Then there was dress-up time with the stuffed animals and tea set.  We did get a little crazy.  And my daughter donned multiple costumes throughout the night.  Whatever the birthday girl wants, right?  All in all, it was  a fun party and I’m proud of my little girl picking a theme that was so girly and fun.

Pizza Making for Dummies

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We love making pizza in our family. Not only is it delicious, but most other people like it too, so it’s great for company or delivering it to new moms, sick people or even freezing it for later (Sans toppings. More about that later.)

I used to make pizza very sporadically. I wasn’t very good at working with dough or getting the timing right when cooking it which made me feel like a pizza-making dummy. Frustrated that I couldn’t make a pizza like my mom (who is a pizza expert in my book), I started making pizza every Friday night a few years ago. Then when I felt like I had mastered it somewhat (no burned, undercooked, or totally terrible pizzas), I started inviting guests over to share our pizza night every few weeks. It’s now my standby for guests, so I never have to guess what to have when company comes or figure out a special menu. Pizza is great for everyone, unless your dieting and who’d want to do that when they’re invited out to eat?

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HOW TO MAKE IT:

Starting after lunch, I put all my ingredients for the dough in the bread maker. It takes an hour and forty minutes on my machine to knead the dough. I call this the lazy man’s way to make pizza. My husband thinks it’s brilliant. I’ll take his word for it.

As soon as the dough is done, I take it out immediately. In the past when I’ve left it in the bread maker long past the beep, it gets sticky. Sometimes it gets sticky anyway which may have to do with the heat and humidity outside. I’m not sure. All I know is dough is finicky, kind of like kids. If this is the case I just knead more flour into the dough and divide it into four balls, which will later become four pizzas.

Then using some flour on my counter top, I roll the dough out into a circle. This is probably the hardest part and takes a lot of practice. If the dough starts to stick at any point in time, I add more flour. If the dough gets too thin and starts to break, I either re-roll it or add a patch of dough where the hole is to repair it. If the dough is totally falling apart, I just start over. Sometimes that’s the best thing to do. Resist the urge to throw the dough against the wall, which is what you’ll feel like doing.

If you’re using a pizza stone (which I highly recommend), put corn meal over the surface to keep it from sticking. If you’re using plain old pizza pans, use shortening over the surface of the pan. It’s a waste to do all that work if your pizza is going to stick to the pan.

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It’s fun to let your kids make a “baby pizza” too. This is my daughter’s version above. Just give them some dough to smash and let them make it into a small round. Have them add the toppings they like even if they do what my daughter did: put all the toppings on and then add the sauce, right on top of everything. It’s their own creation and they’ll be proud of it.

Sometimes I like to throw and twirl my dough in the air like a real pizza maker. But I do not recommend this. Problem number one: You’ll drop it. Problem number two: You’ll break the dough with your hands. Problem three: You’ll have to start over. I have experience with this. DON’T DO IT–EVEN WHEN YOU’RE FEELING ORNERY.

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THE TOPPINGS: DON’T SKIMP ON THE CHEESE

Once I get the pizza rolled I move it to the pan and add all the necessary ingredients. I do make my own sauce, but store bought is fine too. It just depends on what you like.

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One thing I’ve learned about cheese is essential. Put a full two cups on every pizza. I used to skimp on the cheese and then couldn’t figure out what was wrong with my pizza. Then one day I went to a local pizza joint that makes the best deep dish pizza. I saw someone in the back grating this enormous pile of mozzerella cheese. It was like a cheese mountain–it was so huge. And it suddenly occurred to me that I had been a cheese-whimp. I didn’t want to use a whole 2 cup bag of cheese on one pizza, but I decided to try it. The result was scrumptious, cheesy and wonderful. Forget about calories, fat content and your high cholesterol and just pour the whole bag on it. I’m guessing that all of the major pizza joints put on lots of cheese which makes the pizza extra good. Just think of how much calcium you’ll be getting! My advice: Don’t skimp on the cheese department. It does make a difference.

As far as the rest of the toppings go, it’s really up to you. If you get the dough, sauce and cheese right, you can’t really go wrong on the rest of it. Unless you like anchovies. There is something really wrong about anchovies on pizza.

Then bake for 16-20 minutes in a 400 degree oven, until the cheese starts to brown and the crust turns golden. (Check on it often!) You’ll get the hang of finding out the perfect time in your own oven. Then enjoy some hot delicious pizza compliments of your own hard work. Then give yourself a pat on the back. Or a good massage. Or a bubble bath. Because after all that, you’ll need it.

(P.S. I like to freeze my pizza dough for quicker prep on busier Fridays. I don’t think it’s quite as good as fresh and it doesn’t rise as much, but it’s still a quick alternative. Don’t add toppings until you’re read to bake. Adding toppings before freezing only make the pizza mushier in my opinion and harder to determine when the pizza is done. Use a stone to get a crispier crust too.)

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You know what’s best of all? Pizza is easy to share with others and makes a perfect night with company. Just don’t forget to wipe the cheese off your chin when company comes over.

Goodbye July, Welcome August!

Summer’s beautiful days don’t last long and we’ve been soaking up as much time outdoors as possible.  It’s almost a shame that we pack so much into three months: outdoor concerts and festivals, farmer’s markets, pool and splash park fun, zoo trips, picnics, bike riding….the list goes on.  All this fun means there is very little time to be bored.  Just plenty of time to watch the flaming colors of my flowers, sit in my hammock and enjoy a red ripe tomato fresh off the vine.  Ahh, summer.

DSC03142My little fish standing directly under a spray of water at the splash park.

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This one makes me feel old.  My baby riding a bike!  I don’t care if there are training wheels still on there, I’m going to go in a corner and sob my heart out.

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Loving the farmer’s market booth for children.  Art activity + fresh produce = one great morning.

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Summer brings new life and new nephews to hold.  Welcome to the world baby!  I just want to pinch those cheeks and hold that little tiny bundle of love. My heart is melting…

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That’s me up on that rope.  Just a little hobby of mine in my spare time.   (Okay. I couldn’t do that even if I were on the ground with a crew of spotters helping me.  Apparently my daughter was convinced of the same thing, because she told me that mommy could not do that, but daddy COULD.)  Our city’s first “Buskerfest” celebrated the street performer.  We enjoyed balloon sculpting, moving statues, stilt walkers, jugglers, live music, taiko drumming, hip hop dancing and more.  All for free.

DSC03136Enjoying blueberries from our local picking patch, under an umbrella, in the middle of our sidewalk.  Beautiful summer…please don’t end.

Fun and Free Family Activities

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What is it about summer that makes me want to lay by the pool everyday?  Of course it would help if I had a pool (and I’m not counting the kiddie one).  Since I can’t be at the pool, I look for summer activities that are kid-friendly and low cost.  Here are a couple ideas I’ve learned that have helped me plan plenty of summer fun to keep the little one from getting bored:

1. Come up with a “Family Fun” calendar.  We use ical, where we can color code each individual calendar (my calendar, my husband’s calendar, our family fun calendar, etc.) and keep track of events.  Usually our newspaper comes out with a “summer event guide” that lists all festivals, art fairs, town celebrations, and more.  We use this resource, circle the events that interest us and then plug them into our calendar.  We have found this essential for keeping track of free events. When we rely on our memory, we usually forget and miss the event.  I can’t emphasize how important it is to come up with a calendar that lists these events next to your other daily calendar. You can check out ours here but please note that not all activities are free.  My husband takes any and all activities that look interesting and sticks them on our family fun calendar. 

Here are some ideas for free events to take advantage of this summer:

2. Free concerts:  These our great for our family!   Many of the bands play oldies that are fun to dance to and there are families of all ages there.  The music is usually louder than the kids are and we can enjoy the entertainment as we play in the grass.

3. Free festivals, art fairs, town celebrations:  We usually enjoy just walking around, avoiding the junk food (if we can) and watching people, booths, street performers and more.  

4. Farmer’s Market: These are springing up everywhere in our town.  Some even include musicians, children’s activities, free food samples and more.  Be aware that farmer’s markets sometimes “evolve” as the summer goes by.  They can start out pretty bare and then once harvest hits, be full of yummy things to eat.  I’ve been surprised how much my daughter enjoys going to the farmer’s market.  Maybe it’s the free samples of fruit we’ve gotten or the library’s booth where she can do a quick craft.  Either way, it’s a great way to spend an afternoon or evening where there’s nothing to do.  Plus it encourages us to buy locally and enjoy the delicious and fresh local produce and fruits.

5.  Library:  This one might seem a no-brainer, but I often think that people go to the library less in the summer than other times of the year.  Our library offers a great summer reading program, even for babies and toddlers.  We got some amazing resources last year including a free CD and a book of finger plays. Plus my daughter read enough books to earn herself a free book.  Our library also offers free programs, like a Clifford day, a puppet program, a mud sculpture art class and more.  

6. Beach: You don’t have to travel to ocean to enjoy a beach.  Children enjoy the simplest of beaches, even next to small ponds. Last summer I discovered Fox Island County Park had a small beach, perfect for building a sand city, sand rivers and pools.  It does cost us two dollars to get in this park, but it still cheap fun for our family.  There are also turtles, frogs, birds, walking paths, and a nature center to enjoy.

There are so many other great things to do in the summer too!  Playgrounds, splash parks, biking on the trails and more.  The best thing is that we can have lots of fun for very little to no money.  Enjoy the summer!

My love and hate of camping

6 things I hate about camping:

1. Bugs (mostly mosquitoes)

2. Dirt (in my tent, in my bed, on my picnic table…)

3. Getting a poor night’s sleep (it’s too cold, there are freaky noises in the forest like growling raccoons, my mattress is uncomfortable, I have to pee but am scared to…)

4. Smelling like bug spray and sometimes other things around the clock.  (Especially waking up smelling like bug spray.)

5. Rain.  Because it  seems to rain way too much when we camp. You know you’re a true camper when you have slept in the car because your tent flooded.

6.  Campground restrooms. Because of numbers one and two above  (but the other number one and two don’t help either.)

5 Things I like about camping:

1. Getting away from the grind.

2.  The new perspective that nature gives me.

3. Cheap fun

4. Sitting around the campfire with the ones I love.

5. S’mores.  Because it’s totally okay to get a sugar high when you’re camping.

Splash Night Family Fun

We recently had a very exciting night of family fun called Splash Night.  Of course Splash Night conjures images of water all over my floor and wet pants and all sorts of things that don’t sound appealing to mothers and fathers. (It did not turn out this way, I just have an active imagination.) For a three-year-old, Splash Night is pure fun, loads of laughs and no whining.  I love no whining! And the evening turned out remarkably mess-free (besides a few drops on the floor).   An easy night of family fun…swim caps and bathing suits are optional!

Here’s what we did:

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Sink or float activity: Get a bucket of water, and various objects and try to guess whether they will sink or float.  We used an empty glass jar, a tupperware full of water, a bar of soap, an apple, a key and a penny.  It’s a great science lesson too.

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Bobbed for apples: This was my daughter’s idea.  She asked me a few months ago if we could bob for apples (It was like the middle of the day or something…I was like, what? right now?) So I finally allowed apple bobbing as part of splash night.  Guess what?  After a few tries, she got it!

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Made colored water and drank it.  My daughter drank all of her water which was purple.  What is it about purple water that makes kids want to drink it?  Is clear water really so bad?

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Created “water colors”:   We drew on paper towels with markers and then misted them with water and let them dry. We used Crayola washable markers and they worked great.  The colors spread nicely after we sprayed them with water.  This activity was my favorite.  I can’t draw anyways, so when the colors spread out the drawing instantly had that “artsy” flair.  

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Raced homemade boats: We took small tupperware, made a sail and then raced them in the bathtub by blowing on our boats.  I only got beat once.  I think it was all that good flute training.  Or  maybe I got lucky.

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Pet Store Visit: Is it a fact of life that all children like pet stores?  I think so.  My daughter is ga-ga over pets these days, so we visted our store to find pets that splash.  We also found plenty that don’t, but that  was part of the fun.

Zoo Day

 

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We went to the zoo for the first time this season.  We gorged ourselves on sunshine, exotic animals, and family time.  

It was a good relaxing day, and provided some much needed family fun.

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Plus, our zoo got the prestigious ranking of 5th in the nation in Parenting magazine.  Not bad for a small city zoo up against the big city ones!  It makes me feel glad to have so many opportunities so close and to make use of what we have in this town.

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Home is all about making use of the resources you’re given, whether you live in the city or country. It’s about embracing those opportunities and creating them into special family memories.

Paper Mache Painted

 

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I almost forgot!  Here is the final product of our Paper Mache man.  We popped the balloons inside since the paper was dry, then our daughter painted him with a brush.  She wanted him to have a green face, which makes him look a little bit like Larry the Cucumber. But that’s okay.  Skin can be any color when you’re three.

Sticky Icky Family Night

Last Friday night we celebrated “Sticky Icky Night.”  We stayed in and had our own little party since both daughter and daddy had colds and were a bit under the weather.  

This was my daughter’s favorite family night so far. And it’s no wonder!  We did lots of kinestetic fun with our hands and sticky materials.

Our activities included:

  • Making sticky popcorn balls with our hands
  • Turning peel-n-pull licorice into works of art 
  • Building a paper mache man with some balloons and flour-paste

Enjoy the pictures and feel free to have your own sticky-icky night.  Anything sticky (and probably sugary) works great, especially for young children!img_84951

Making and eating our popcorn balls.  Sticky and delicious.

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Sticky icky hands.  Keep plenty of  paper towels around!

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Licorice art.  We had a great time with this.  Who knew licorice could be so fun?

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Making our paper mache body.  

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Here is the “head” and “body” of our “statue” hanging out to dry.  Since we haven’t painted him yet, I’ll show you the end result once it’s done.  We have been learning about statues, so this is a combination of learning project, art, and family night.  
I don’t have any memory of doing paper mache as a child, probably because it was too messy.  But this was so much fun!  If you use a vinyl table cloth, it’s really quite easy to clean up.  

Fun and messy.  Mission accomplished.

Talent Night Family Night

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On Friday we ventured up to my mom’s house, which is a little over an hour away.  We decided that after spending so much time fixing the toliet the weekend before (a two hour job which turned into a 2 day job with three trips to Lowe’s and still not fixed) we took this last weekend off.  An overnight at my mother’s might not seem extravagant or relaxing, but it really is a nice break. We stayed up late and watched Australia, went antique shopping the next day, and spent some time with Grandma.

We still tried to continue some type of Family Night even though we weren’t home.  ”Talent Night” was the theme, with Grandma’s stash of great dress up clothes (mostly vintage from her era).  Then we sang songs, danced, played the piano and harmonica and cheered a lot.  We kept it very simple–it was all spur of the moment, but dressing up made it extra fun.  

I’d like to try this again when my daughter is older and we can actually plan a simple “show.”  She’s a little young for it now, but after seeing Dan in Real Life I think the family talent show can make for very memorable fun.  The scene in the link above of Steve Carrell playing “Let My Love Open the Door” inspired my husband to learn the song.  Let me add that Carrell’s solo verse at the end makes me a little teary, which I guess is the point of a talent show: to laugh and cry and maybe both at the same time.

If you’re interested in the book Family Fun Nights by Lisa Bany Winters, here is a link to Amazon.

Family Fun Nights by Lisa Bany Winters

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